changing my little corner

hi guys, I've been thinking about deleting my blog lately bcs I've been feeling a little overwhelmed. I thought maybe going back to my old theme and concept would help, just keeping things simple like they used to be

I just wanted to let you guys know, that's all. I might change my blog address too, so if I ever do, just know that I was whimsibunni^^ I'm still not sure whether I should keep it or not tho... but I thought I'd let you guys know what's been going on... also, I made a blog codes page (here) if anyone wants to use them :D

that's all for now. thank you for being here ୨୧

and I'm wishing a happy halloween to everyone celebrating! it's exciting to read all of youses posts about it! 🎃♡

the "too emotional" myth

tw: femicide, personal trauma, misogyny

being a woman sometimes is like you're walking through a minefield where you have to bypass the mines carefully to avoid triggering an outburst.. I mean I honestly don't get the stereotypes. like the notorious label and myth that women are "too emotional" for crying is overused and outdated bcs they're ignoring the reality that the "less" emotional and so called cool, calm, logical ones are the ones causing so many ruins. expressing feelings is completely a normal thing. unlike those with fragile masculinity who cannot handle a rejection. the irony is wild. like who's the irrational one here? but anyway...

how many women have already fallen to their outbursts? well, you know what I mean by that. this is what has been going on for decades. the past few years have been really crazy here with a high number of tragic femicides following rejection. just recently a 16 year old who went to school for a tuition class was brutally targeted while no one was around (source: here) after allegedly rejecting her classmate's advances and the worst thing happened

this makes me sick to my stomach at how much these femicide headlines just prove the terrifying reality that even for saying "no" is not enough to keep us safe. personally the recent case triggered my trauma and it makes me so sooo mad just how inhumane a person could be to do a horrific thing to another person

instead of telling women how to tread through the minefield, society should teach their son not to plant the mines, bcs this happens when boys are never told no, and they become entitled to take whatever they want

the world was supposed to be a safe place. no one deserves to be treated beyond what they're willing to give. if someone says no, then you know they have set a fine line. and overstepping that line is why we're in this terrifying reality rn

for more context: 

[i. read herei], [ii. read hereii], [iii. read here]

bear with me, I'm getting a bit emotional

so I came across this new game and played it for the first time and it was a bit confusing tho ngl... but as I kept playing it, I found it rather intriguing actually eventho I mainly played it just for the sake of socialising but whenever someone approaches my sky kid I'm like LEAVE ME ALOONEEEE LOL I get so scared!! but it was cute when I played it with someone but I kinda ruined it bcs I forgot how to make the character fly and I lost them T.T but they're still in my friend constellation list which is a good thing I think?? they were really sweet!

anyway I think my sky kid got lost and accidentally went to the van gogh portal... the whole time I was trying to avoid his portal bcs I didn't give an F about him at first but guess who cried like a baby? :( it was so so sad and I felt such an attachment to him

this season gives us an animation of his entire life and it's so sad how much he was underappreciated during his time yk and I wish he knew how widely known he is now. so relieved that his brother and johanna saw his efforts. if it wasn't for johanna we wouldn't know who he is today

the throne series!

tw: spoilers !! skip if needed

 

✿ arranged marriage

✿ strong fmc

✿ second chance

✿ mafia princess x former guard

✿ enemies to lovers

✿ he falls first, she falls harder

♡ my review for throne of power ♡

as you can see, it's a 2.5 read for me. I cannot really remember much of what happened in previous books, but it'd be so silly if I reread the entire series just to catch up. so I picked up where I left off. "it's not deep" okay? but it is a biggg deal if yk how deep rkverse is, and how the characters are all tied together in the same worldbuilding.

♡ my review for throne of vengeance ♡

I just caaaaan't describe how much I looove the second book. I'm obsessed. it's just too perfect. I don't quite understand how the bratva works but everything aligns perfectly to each character that has a history with the organisation whatever. but yeah, dark romance has never been my favourite but lately I've genuinely grown to love it ♡♡

well obviously my reviews 90% me rambling. my thoughts are a bit of a mess and it didn't give much anyway. but that's the fun in it!! :>